When it comes to epic romances, no couple does it better than Elizabeth Bennet and Mr. Darcy. Their love story has inspired generations, and you could argue that it marks the beginning of the tradition of the Romance Novel. Not just the Romance Novel, but several generations of films as well. Whichever your favorite casting, there is no doubt that these two personify all that is romantic.
The brilliance of Elizabeth and Darcy is that they were never meant to be. The Bennets were decent enough folk, but they were nowhere near the level of the Pemberly set. Jane Austen does a great job of portraying this whereas sometimes the film versions clean things up. The fact is that Elizabeth was the daughter of a middling man and a meddling woman. She herself was intelligent, but not exactly a classic Regency heiress.
Darcy, on the other hand, was a man of wealth, if not title. He had a vast estate and at least one relative that could claim the moniker “Lady”. He was clearly a catch, although Austen never goes into the details of how his family made its money or how far back it goes. It was enough to have Lady Catherine De Bourgh maneuvering him into marrying her daughter and to have Caroline Bingley falling all over herself to nab him.
Elizabeth and Darcy were an even more unlikely pairing because of their approach to society. Elizabeth was open and witty, almost sharp. She had no problem socializing at balls and private gatherings. She was bold enough to go out walking on her own for amusement. Darcy, on the other hand, was painfully shy. He disliked being in company and hid his discomfort by being a bit rude and aloof.
Yep, on paper there was no way these two should ever get together.
But as we all know, they did. Why???
Well, because as we all know, a single man in possession of a great fortune must be in want of a wife. That and because they were the perfect compliments to each other. Elizabeth brought Darcy out of his shell and spurred him to action while Darcy tempered some of Elizabeth’s fire by making her see the truth beyond the way she imagined it must be.
But it wasn’t easy getting there.
First, there was that whole bad first impression thing. Let’s face it, our dear Lizzy jumped to conclusions without getting her facts straight at that first ball. She got the idea in her head that Darcy was proud and she wouldn’t let it go for the longest time. Darcy, for his part, really didn’t know how to deal with women. He didn’t know that he came off as a jerk or how to fix it.
Then there was that little problem of Wickham. There’s nothing like a handsome, smooth-talking rogue walking into the picture to feed a girl’s prejudices and turn her head. Bless her heart, but Lizzy judged the books by their covers and held fast to her ill opinion of Darcy and her good opinion of Wickham.
Fortunately, it all fell apart in spectacular fashion. I was always impressed by the letter Darcy wrote to Elizabeth after she tore him a new one and refused his proposal. Not only did he present the facts to make Lizzy see how mistaken she’d been, he did it in the most user-friendly way possible for her. If he had tried to visit her again and say all that in person she would have scratched his eyes out. Because Elizabeth Bennet is nothing if not impulsive.
But what makes this such a fantastic love story is the way Darcy came to the rescue, not just of Elizabeth but of her entire family. And he did it after he’d been smacked down hard by the object of his affection. Darcy knew he’d been wrong and he tried to make it right. He owned up to Bingley and encouraged him to go after Jane and he forced Wickham to make an honest woman out of Lydia. What makes Mr. Darcy the ultimate romantic hero is the simple fact that he is a great guy.
So in the end Lizzy wised up to the prize she’d had sitting in front of her the whole time and Darcy broke his usual introverted habits to risk proposing again. And they lived happily ever after, or so we presume.
Now, I’ve never read any of the pseudo fan fiction continuations of the Elizabeth/Darcy relationship that are out there. Maybe I’m too much of a purist. I would rather imagine the continuing story of this epic romantic couple being so tranquil and satisfying that it doesn’t make for a good story. But if you think any of the multitude of stories written about their later life are any good, let me know.
As for the film versions…. Well, can anything really come close to the Colin Firth/Jennifer Ehle version? That mini-series is one of the best things that has ever been put on film. Not just for the leading couple. All of the supporting cast is brilliant, from Mrs. Bennet to Mr. Collins to Lady Catherin and Mr, Bingley and Jane. The casting is so perfect and they all shine.
But I also happen to really like the Kiera Knightly/Matthew Macfadyen version too. I think that one captures the true status of the Bennet family and the society of Meryton a lot better than the clean and proper 1995 BBC version. Plus Matthew Macfadyen is wonderful eye candy. Not that Colin Firth isn’t, mind you.
Then there’s the first adaptation I saw, the Greer Garson/Lawrence Olivier 1940 version that we watched when I was in high school reading the book for the first time. All I remember from that one is the style of acting. Maybe it was good, who knows. And let’s not forget the Bollywood version, Bride and Prejudice. Believe it or not, this adaptation totally and completely works. And it’s funny and has Bollywood dance numbers. If you haven’t seen it you really are missing out.
So there you have it. Elizabeth and Darcy. One of the greatest romances in literature.





































